Dad also "lied"
谎言，是来迷惑别人的语言。我一直认为说谎，是一种不诚实的表现。不过，今天，爸爸却和我说起了一件发生在他和爷爷之间的关于谎言的事。这件事，让我发现了另外一种谎言——善意的谎言。 这件事发生在2003年，当时我才一岁。远在东北老家的四爷给爷爷打来一个电话，说我的太奶奶，也就是爷爷的妈妈去世了。因此，爸爸陪爷爷去了一趟东北，处理奶奶的后事。一个礼拜之后，爷爷和爸爸回来了。据奶奶后来说：爷爷当时很伤心。 2005年，我爷爷不幸得了癌症，开始住在医院里进行治疗。真是祸不单行，此时，从东北又传来一个坏消息：我的太爷爷也去世了。 这次，还是我爸爸最先知道这件事。为了不让生病的爷爷知道后加重病情。爸爸决定暂时向爷爷隐瞒这件事。每当爷爷问起东北情况的时候，爸爸都用善意的谎言敷衍过去了。爸爸还与四爷一起编这个谎言，让四爷经常写信来告诉爸爸：东北一切都好…… 就这样，爸爸的谎言一直说到爷爷去世。如今，每当爸爸拿出爷爷写给四爷的最后一封信时，双眼都会满含热泪。因为，爷爷在信里嘱咐四爷照顾好太爷。 今年清明，我陪爸爸去给爷爷上坟。爸爸嘴里念叨着，请爷爷原谅他。当时，我还有些纳闷，今天我终于明白了其中的原因。爷爷，请您原谅我爸爸吧！他也是……|||
Lies, is to confuse the language of others. I always thought it was a dishonest expression. Today, however, my father and I are talking about something that happened between him and his grandfather. This thing, let me find another kind of Lie - a white lie. It happened in 2003, when I was one year old. In the Northeast home to grandpa made a phone call, said my great grandma, Grandpa's mom died. So, dad with Grandpa went to the northeast, grandma's funeral treatment. A week later, Grandpa and dad came back. According to the grandmother later said: Grandpa was very sad. In 2005, my grandfather had cancer, and began to live in the hospital for treatment. It is at this point, from the Northeast Disasters pile up on one another., came a bad news: my grandfather died. This time, my dad knew it first. In order not to let the sick grandfather know after aggravating illness. Dad decided to temporarily hide it from his grandfather. When my grandfather asked about the situation in the northeast, my father with a white lie. Dad and grandpa four together this lie, let he often write letters to tell his father that all is well in Northeast china...... In this way, the father of the lie has been said to his grandfather died. Now, when Dad took grandfather wrote the last letter when his eyes will be full of tears. Because grandpa in the letter asked his father to take care of. This year's Qingming Festival, I accompanied my father to go to Grandpa's grave. Dad talking about the mouth, please forgive him grandpa. At that time, I still have some wonder, today I finally understand the reason. Grandpa, please forgive my father! He also...... |||