Three times in depth thinking I am from the clerk to the director
The uncle Ogawa
This article is about the depth of thinking, many people will say, you do not encounter things, you can think deeply?
Indeed, if your life does not encounter a choice, a choice, to give up and other key issues, you may not have the opportunity to do self torture. But this is not to say that the depth of thinking usually can not do.
If you are aware of the problems in your work and life, first recorded, then find a weekend morning, feeling calm and relaxed. Take a piece of paper, do a self questioning.
I used to do that.
I will write down the questions on the paper, for example, why do I love to be angry?
Write down this line, I will ask myself, do you think you will be angry at what?
Then self - answer, such as in the field of love, when the dog is not obedient.
Then try to answer whether this is due to your hope that the other side will do according to what you think, this control desire will let you have a vision, once the other side failed to do, you will be the performance of the disappointed and angry.