I deeply feel that small children dependent on the teacher is so strong, such as shoelaces, button, small have to the teacher for help to complete. In particular, every wake up after the nap, there is always a crowd of children around her, let me help them to do these things. To tell the truth, sometimes I really feel a little tired, but when I see kids that faces the wishful face to hear a child childish full words:" teacher, help me put my clothes please"," teacher, my shoelace is not on"," teacher, help me ... ..." I didn't have the heart not to help. But the deeper thought, child life self-care ability was very poor, if blindly so give care on children self-care ability, how can you improve? How to do? Good long time, the problem has been bothering me.
One day, the children while outdoors, my arm accidentally sprained, one time she can not move. After the nap up, the children still like always around me, to help me to do this or that, but some of the children to see my injured arm, her own wearing clothes. After a while, a few always wants me to wear clothes for children, even in" good". Although, their clothes buttons the wrong way, shoes back, but after all they wear. Suddenly I found, these things they will not do, but do not want to do. So, why don't I take this opportunity to ask him to do things for themselves?", I said to the children:" the children, the teacher 's arm was injured, the doctor said to have a good long time to heal, it seems these days, teachers can help you get dressed, you have to wear their own clothes, shoes, buttons, okay?" The vast majority of children are promised, but there are still few children carrying their clothes sat on the edge of the bed not to utter a single word. I know, they did not wear their own, so, I side called ability children to help them, telling them home after that my mother taught them, he also practised more, try to wear their own clothes, shoes, children confident nod, over a period of time, the children finally all dressed, fasten the shoelace buckle, buttons. Looking at a red face, I feel - array.
After this incident, long time bothering my problem was solved finally, how to improve children's self-care ability I have some new ideas. Sometimes," stand by" to force the children themselves is also a good way of Education